Wednesday, August 25, 2010

HONOUR KILLINGS

Our people were like sand in the seashore,lacked unity.But we were able to attain the unity.
But I say we are just a half way in our journey.
Lack of education is clearly shown in our country.

Please remember if a room or a house or a place is in darkness for more than 1000 years ,it doesn't mean a lamp requires another 1000 years to lighten the place.

After hearing the news of the so called HONOUR KILLING in some part of my country,gives a huge amount of sorrow as well as anger in my mind,(I guess,no I strongly believe its the same feeling that every INDIAN or NON INDIAN human beings have).

I strongly believe thee practices are still there because of lack of proper education.

Be free with education.Unity brings strength.
Anyone can just give his/her opinions.
But nobody knows who really keeps them or atleast try to show the justice in their life.None can be blamed.
Our lifes are really bonded.parents relatives friends our community in which we live in.
Everyone have the power to oppose the evil,but their hands are tied. Tied with the rope called responsibilities.
Its like If I come in front I am sure I will be able to make some small difference,but my dependents my parents my sister/brother depending on me might suffer.
We all live for our family.
No need to change that,just a modification,we can consider our community as our family,the problem is solved.(saying or writing is easy)

But Try try Try we will succeed.

Great men has proven before.Today we don't need to wait for some one to come and lead us .We all are leaders.


But the story is extremely reverse in the other side=>Honour killings.
cont..

Friday, August 6, 2010

My Madness

Please excuse me.
I intend not to publish this,but couldnt.
Please don't throw stones at me for this madness.
Its just a collection or you can say it as an outline or like a new born looking at the nature for the very first time.
I strongly believe at some point of time anyone will feel any of these lines in their life.
These are just my collections to the future,who knows about the human mind,the future(beauty of life is the search of this).

Some stepping stones which I would lay down in advance for me or anyone who read.

thoughts=words=actions=actions others do under one's instructions

Our destiny was shaped long before the body came into being

Human body divided into 3=>flesh,life & the binding force the soul

Each person, each physical object, from the perspective of eternity, is like a brief, disturbed drop of water from an unbounded ocean

womb is the great Nature (Prakriti or MAYA). In that I place the germ (embryo of life). Thence is the birth of all beings.

"For that which we cannot see, feel, smell, touch, or understand, we do not believe. For this, we are merely fools walking on the grounds of great potential with no comprehension of what is."

Brahman is the only truth, the spatio-temporal world is an illusion, and there is ultimately no difference between Brahman and individual self.

Brahman =creator

Like gravity, karma is so basic we often don't even notice it

When an inner situation is not made conscious, it appears outside as fate.

Popular methods for negating cognitive dissonance include meditation, metacognition, counselling, psychoanalysis, etc., whose aim is to enhance emotional self-awareness and thus avoid negative karma. This results in better emotional hygiene and reduced karmic impacts.

Permanent neuronal changes within the amygdala and left prefrontal cortex of the human brain attributed to long-term meditation and metacognition techniques have been proven scientifically.

This process of emotional maturation aspires to a goal of Individuation or self-actualisation. Such peak experience are hypothetically devoid of any karma (nirvana)


Will continue this collections through out my life..promise..

Wednesday, August 4, 2010

My ഗുരു=Grace, Love, Mercy -all the three - Stand for one same reality- Life's Star. He who loves is who really lives.

SREE NARAYANA GURU

He was/is the only person in this world who spread the message of "ONE CASTE,ONE RELIGION ,ONE GOD for the Man Kind".

Its a sad thing to know and understand that we in this world live following his teachings/instructions with a small but major difference.

The illiterate world follow the rule of "ONE CASTE ,ONE RELIGION ,ONE GOD ===FOR ONE PERSON".

I have friend who once told me that thing he hates very much is ***************(its a religion I am not mentioning the name.I was very much surprised to hear that,because the place where I was born and bought up ,our secular & democratic INDIA,i couldn't believe my ears when he said that.

But I always knew,one should be an active listener.It gives you An Immortal& Immense power to which you have no idea of.

Find yourself from the darkness and crawl towards the light.
And here I say in my dark world,I consider GURU as my light,a voice from inside which just prevents you from doing\thinking the so called bad.

The good,bad the mind decides those.Some times good becomes bad & bad becomes good.Always there will be a choice to select between the good and the bad.
The individual is considered to be the sole doer and enjoyer of his karmas and their 'fruits'.

I consider Guru as one of the few,who in this ignorant world,found himself(the answer to WHO AM I?),found the truth of the the existence ,the ultimate Truth(He wandered from place to place in quest of Truth).HE tries to guide you,be the light while you are crawling in the darkness,gives you the good hope.

He was essentially a ‘Karma Yogi’. But his ‘silence eloquent’, the inner light that emanated from his resplendent personality, inspired and enlightened all around him.
He did not attempt to find a new religion, but he propounded a great creed, the creed of “Universal Goodness”.

I would like to dedicate the following lines to my friend who had a different opinion ,as I have mentioned in the start.
Devoid of dividing walls of Caste
Or hatred of rival faith,
We all live here
In Brotherhood, words of the guru.

Whichever the religion It suffices If it makes a better man..

If I could make my friend to rethink what he believes ,after reading this,nothing more I could wish for.......

Chennai= I LOVE YOU

My lovely sweet and dearest Chennai love u more and more daily irrespective of the rulers ,,the traffic jamss created y the MLA's,MP's,Minister's,The different oard chairman's,The rowdy auto wala's, the flooding roads and sewage lines in rain's,unhygenic conditions beside s the roads....I love u chennai leaving all your bad things behind I am loving you more and more..

dumbo in the college LIfe

Hi every one..How things going on?.
Thank you for you the precious time spend on what I am saying here.
I guess you are in your office,copying this text from my blog and pasting it in a text page or in a document and reading giving if an impression to your Tl that you are seriously working.
ahahhaha sorry everyone,just came from my routine day(Dont tell my TL,secret).

College Life,yes I missed it,completely and I dont mind calling myself a dumbo college guy interested in NOTHING in the college,like the classes,the travel in the college bus,the girls in the college, not much in studies like that guy.

I got to an engineering college after much of a struggle,say it was created by me.
I dont regret like nothing went according to my plans ,because I NEVER had plans.

My college..
I got admission to a very new college which started functioning in the middle of the academic year,thanks to the government of Kerala ,gave permission to open colleges to anyone who had initial money.Ohh crap am I going to corruption topic again? No coming back.


Allways do the right thing,Try to stop who don't.Tried it there in my college for 4 years,hmm not success.

Starting from home at 7:25,walking fast(virtually running) to catch my local bus,which will take me to the college bus stop(10km distance).get in the bus,have a little sleep,reach the class.

Reaching the class,get side to the walls,my second row bench waiting for me,(near to the window).

Classes start..I love the end of second period of the class,we have interval,the mess hall,(like a teashop)spend time come back,again boring classes,but I was/Am a good listener.

I used to listen well in the class,not because classes were that good,but the person taking the class is giving her/his effort(because my cousin sister is teacher,Know how much effort they put in).At 4,run to catch my favourite window seat(i stooped this from second year ,because I am the senior and I will get it forcefully(bully ha).


Since its an engineering course,it will give me 4 years,to repeat the same feast,same routine day by day..

Had to score marks,got some decent marks to survive.

Came to know about the exams in my second year of college life,exams are nothing but a little hurdle put in front of you in which you have to find a way to cross the hurdles by yourself by putting some efforts that all .Those are not big deals.


Revenge was always in me,not deep inside but clearly with me.But forgiveness was a gift from the heaven to me.

Contnd

contnd...

...........................................COmpany

Job security =>like u can live on with out any pressures.
Rehiring policy=>With the help of your manager you can come
to the same company after resigning with the salary which you get in the other company you joined.


Its a Personal experience dont know about whatz happening outside :*****OL team
When some one raises an issue regarding the appraisal or performance ratings,DM says:Hey dude,I don't mind you stay or not,I have got 5 years of project(extension) in my hand,and I am willing to sacrifise the Quality of the deliverables for 6 months if a person leaves the company.


Manager says:dude I give u an option,just promise me You will comback to the company after 2-3 months,I guarantee you the same salary which you got in the other company.


Cool no words to say on the other parts to the readers I guess.



no advice to the management.only advice to those who are in ***** & reading
this,Please dont shout or raise your issue to the management,Just take another offer and leave.Come back to this company after 1 year,you get more than 550-70% hike of what salary you are getting in the other company since its is the HR policy


lol

People ask why stay then,herz the answer.
Why not becauseof some dubba idiots i should leave any way

(Not a coward by not using the company name,but if it is only my expereince then y should i refere the name and others have a good experience??)

Leaving shortly....
(Contnd.......)