Never ending Lessons taught by Life->

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Lesson learned from life in the the hard way

There are some lessons to be learned the hard way and never ever be forgotten in life.
Never let anyone take advantage of you or treat badly.We respect ourselves and who the bloody hell is others to make fun of you or take advantage of your weakness.
Being soft doesn't mean that one is weak and cannot be hard or couldn't hit back with the same or more force applied on you.It only means being good.
Learning the lesson to keep a person on its boundary and not allowing to cross it is very important.It will be, most of the times, taking the hard way.
A teammate is the one you lose or win a game with and a friend is the one you cry to when you have played poorly.
In this world everyone acts like a friend(most) and our success is finding those good friends(gems of your life),never loose it,(you cant because they will never let you go).
A friend is there because you love them and you want them to be there. Although you may love your teammate and want him or her to be around, ultimately he or she is there because you both share a love for the same sport.
While it is unlikely that you can yell at friend and have all be forgotten five minutes later, you can scream at a teammate on the field and give each other a hug the second you step off the field.
A friend may never see you throw up from running too hard, but a teammate may never see you act silly at the dinner table

I have realized that both friends and teammates are equally needed, but play extremely different roles in the life.
Never let anyone be your priority or We must not allow other people's limited perceptions to define us.

The bottom line  is that the things in my life are there because they have meaning for me. They serve a valuable purpose — to me ,Nobody else…The challenges of just living my life have demanded my full attention. And the fact that I’m here — humble possessions or not — is as much of an affirmation as I could ask for
And I am not going to let you take advantage of me anymore.!!!

DUDe stories The INTRO

Hi Everyone,...I am Back.
This time I have got a good news,no more talks on the general issues.I am gonna write and store the REAL TIME Life experience of my friend,THE DUDE.

The Guy "DUDE" is very much popular among our self.An absolute Spell on others.None can hate him,he is one of a kind.The things which I am presenting before you in different parts are absolute truth(91.6 pure) and is not intended to harm anyone or bring bad to anyone.

Ok lets start with the college,before that I dont know him ,so Our story stats from college.

Hey You Know Our DUDE is an NRE admission to the college.
Some has said that India's future hero's comes from the back benches of the schools/Colleges,there was a huge fight for the back benches. DUDE was no1 in the seats(back Bench).

INTRODUCTORY STORY=>DANIEL DISOUZA

SCENE 1: Computer Science class(C++)

Our new lecturer(male) enters the class,
Everyone in a sleepy mood.(DUDE already slept).


Lecturere tries to give an impression like he is something big,he completed his BE,so he tries asking some questions on C++.(dumbo)
he is firing questions at one side,dude snoring at another side.

LEcturer found out DUDE and asked him The question:WHO is the founder of C++????

Dude's friend shakes him up and DUDE came to know that "Sir" is asking question to him.
He didn't waste time by hearing the question he asked his friend the answer to the question wiping the saliva from his mouth due to heavy sleep.
Her our friend told him the answer and the DUDE with all his energy shouted out the answer which was supposed to be the founder of C++.
The Class room was shocked first.Sir asked him to repeat he repeated in a proud manner "DANIEL DESOUZA"
The next was a bomb blasting laugher in the class and another bombarding sound GET OUTSIDEEe.meet the principallllllllllllll!!!!!!!!!!

Yesterday is gone. Tomorrow has not yet come. We have only today. Let us begin.

1)Helping hands better than praying lips

2)While earning your daily bread, be sure you share a slice with those less fortunate.

3)If you can't feed a hundred people, then feed just one.

4)To keep a lamp burning, we have to keep putting oil in it.



Few days back I realized the full meaning of the sentence "Helping hands better than praying lips".
Some quotes by wise humans(enlightened) that have helped me ,might help u all,
"While earning your daily bread, be sure you share a slice with those less fortunate.
If you can't feed a hundred people, then feed just one."
As humans and emotional ones,we hear these words,we read these words and will feel ashamed what we have done from our part and later we let it go..
"To keep a lamp burning, we have to keep putting oil in it" and the first quote "Helping hands better than praying lips",remembering this frequently can make,
will make,have made the difference for me,you might also feel the difference..
And i am not ashamed that it took me these many years to realize this because There is no way I am gonna turn back!!!!!!!!!!

Its my point of view I ma writing here..We live in this beautiful world,we have some responsibilities.
Its all in you,People say GOD is with in you.Just to need to figure it out.Its kindness love & help to the needed.
The quotes 1) 2) 3) 4) are all interrelated.
HAve you ever seen a child(human) eating from the waste basket or form the food which is thrown away, on the internet video/TV and felt bad or sympathize on them.
Let me tell you,most people see this,put their comments on sympathy,go on leading their life.
Have you ever seen somebody in real doing those?Then a question.Did you do anything?what made you sympathize and what/who prevented you from doing any help?
I know the money with us doesnot make much difference,but can defintely make one difference for one person for one time.
Let the GOD on you be released for some time,you can feel the difference.
Yes you can enjoy your life in any way,Just make an effort to help some one in need.
Its easy to comment on the functioning of charitable trusts,saying those guys collect money and don't give them to the needed. YEs there are some organizations doing these bad things.
But think what have you done ?Are you eligible to make such a comment?
Few charitable trust',non profit NGO's are trying to help.They are trying.
Remember the quote "We ourselves feel that what we are doing is just a drop in the ocean. But the ocean would be less because of that missing drop."
Read quote 4
There must be a reason why some people can afford to live well. They must have worked for it.
Not all of us can do great things. But we can do small things with great love.
Love is a fruit in season at all times, and within reach of every hand.
Only in heaven will we see how much we owe to the poor for helping us to love God better because of them.

Please I BEG before each one of you ,Please stop your self from helping the needed,They deserve a chance a live,Please do keep trying.
"We ourselves feel that what we are doing is just a drop in the ocean. But the ocean would be less because of that missing drop."


I have just taken the quotes from mother teresa which inspired me.

If a friend makes a mistake,please don’t rub it in.rub it out.

I dont have so many friends,But I ma an active listener I know none in this world leaves with out realizing some facts about life.
WHich means every will come to know about the facts of life,but when life teaches those lessons to you,it might be painful.
We have wise men who have quoted the lessons from others life to help us out.We need to be active listener to listen/read and figure it out.
Having so many friends is easy,just be nice to them.But having few strongly bonded friends will definitely make a difference in our life.
Good Friendship comes with a lot of responsiblities ,Expecting nothing from each other is the first one.
I am gonna apologize to my friend today.I have met him 4 years back.
He has been a great friend of mine.I have turned down on him so many times in 4 years,but I cannot figure out atleast once incident when he turned
down on me.Feeling ashamed of this is not a big thing,But I am courage enough to face him today and ask for forgiveness.
I definitely know he will give a smile to me,because I Know him very well.He;s more than a big brother to me(simply a very great friend).
Keep your friends as a treasure.

A friend is someone we turn to,
When our spirits need a lift,
A friend is someone we treasure,
For true friendship is a gift.

A friend is someone we laugh with,
Over little personal things,
A friend is someone we're serious with,
In facing whatever life brings.

A friend is someone who fills our lives,
With beauty and joy and grace.
And makes the world that we live in
A better and happier place!


I wanna be really rich if friends are Treasure.A friend is one who puts his finger on a fault without rubbing
it in.
Be friendly with the folks you know.. if it weren’t for them

I love my country more than anyone.

Hi everyone.

I love my country.

Every one proudly says this all the times but have doubt in the words I am proud of my country.Please don't say you haven't thought like this at any point of your life.Still if you say you never thought like that please excuse me ,you can stop reading because the facts which I am gonna say may haunt you.

Just starting the series with So called the MAOISTS-naxals in INDIA.

Please let me take some wordings from on place.(only good things intended)

"The notion that a Naxalite is someone who hates his country is naive and idiotic.He is, more likely, one who likes this country more than the rest of us, and is hence more disturbed than the rest of us when he sees it debauched.He is not a bad citizen turning to crime; he is a good citizen fighting for justice and equality."

Try to see the documentary "Flames of the Snow".

"the single biggest internal security challenge ever faced by our country."it was the comment made by our PM about Naxalites.

In our country 83 districts in 9 states are regarded as "Naxal-hit".Do you think its a joke,serious buisness wake up ,Jago India Jago.Try to read ,listen what is Naxalism,what is so called maiost,Mao Zedong etc.

What they claim as The eventual objective is to install a "people’s government" via a New Democratic Revolution.

Is my country SO down that we need a new democratic Revolution to install a people government? We say No because we haven't felt the heat they are suffering, our fellow comrades.

Contnd..